Not Applicable!??

28 May
Eeyore as depicted by Disney

Eeyore as depicted by Disney (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

This past week or so has been a doozy. Not only am I packing up our place solo, but the kids and I were in a bit of a fender bender. As a result, I am sore all over. The middle of my back feels like I took a swift kick from a donkey.

Erring on the side of caution, and under the advice of several friends and family, I had it looked at. As I was filling out the forms and answering the routine questions, it came up: What do you do? (for a living). I’m a stay at home mom. Oh…… (dead silence). Three separate occasions this week, I’ve been asked this question with varying responses to my answer.  All vague and non-committal as if the person asking the question doesn’t know how to process parenthood as a profession.

A quick exam by the doctor and a few x-rays for good measure confirm that all is well. Just a muscle strain and a spasm. No medication since I’m still breastfeeding. $50 bucks and I’m on my way, trying to convince myself that the $50 for reassurance that nothing serious was going on, was well worth it.

And then…

My husband, through circumstances beyond his control, ended up at the same urgent care also with back pain. HE brings home multiple prescriptions, photo copies of stretches he’s supposed to do nightly AND work restrictions.

Ok.

The next morning, Mr Crabby Pants is crying at my husband’s knees, I’ve got my hands full, and my husband looks at me and says with a degree of frustration, “Honey, can you get him, I’ve got work restrictions.”

That was the moment.That’s when it finally sunk in.

For those of us Mom’s (stay at home or otherwise) THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS WORK RESTRICTIONS! That whole section on the after-care release forms became Not Applicable the moment I said I was a stay at home mom.

No work restrictions for this or any stay at home mom. If the kid is crying, we pick him up! Blood, puke, snot or tears, it’s always Mommy to the rescue.

And, at the end of the day, after that friendly kick from Eeyore really settles in, I wouldn’t change a thing.

5 Responses to “Not Applicable!??”

  1. Noelle May 29, 2013 at 2:10 pm #

    Amen, sister!

  2. Annie Greco June 3, 2013 at 6:55 am #

    So true. A womans job is never finished. We are on call 24/7. I hope all goes well with everything going on for you and your family ..

    • momuverse June 3, 2013 at 11:03 am #

      Thanks Annie! It’s getting a little frantic with the moving preparations.

  3. penneyfox June 3, 2013 at 4:02 pm #

    I saw this pin that said “All women are working women”. Good to hear you’re feeling better from the car accident.

    How interesting that your husband was treated differently for the same type of issue. Makes me wonder how many other moms have had this happen to them … hmmm ….

    • momuverse June 4, 2013 at 12:13 pm #

      It does make one stop to ponder. Sexism at work or are men just whinier????

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